Betrayal is the worst thing a friend could do, more so coming from a best friend. The break up is already painful enough, and it'll be like adding insult to injury. Probably by now you feel as if your heart has been forcefully taken out , broken into million pieces and spat over.

Betrayal is the worst thing a friend could do, more so coming from a best friend. The break up is already painful enough, and it'll be like adding insult to injury. Probably by now you feel as if your heart has been forcefully taken out , broken into million pieces and spat over.

First off you must have a good sense to feel things. Take on the non-verbal cues. You'll have a feeling if the ex still wants you or simply over you. Trust me, you'll know.

In the case of the ex, first thing you have to consider is why did you guys break up in the first place? Whose fault was it? Then device a master plan to get your ex back. That is if you still want her. Keep in mind that everyone has a weakness.

First thing to bear in mind; you're the dumper. It's your fault why you're in this predicament in the first place. With that said, don't demand a single thing. Woo your ex on her own pace and time. Don't rush it. These things take time.

Now we go to the snake a.k.a. (former) best friend. It's an unwritten rule that you never, and I mean never date your best friend's ex fresh from the break up. If you really have to, at least have the decency to ask your best friend first.

Chances are that with your best friend in rebound relationship with ex you will be traveling in the same social circles so you will be thrown together. If you fall apart every time, start to beg, or go into fits of angry outbursts, this will do nothing to help you accomplish your goal and may actually drive the two of them closer together. This is the last thing you want. Remember honey catches far more flies than vinegar.

Always remember that you guys broke up for a reason and she would be hesitant to take you back. Make sure that she does not feel as if she's committing a mistake. Make her feel that it will be worth it if she takes you back in her life. Shower her with affection. You can never go wrong with that one.

Once you have established contact chances are she would come to you when she has fights with her present boyfriend. This is your time to shine! Give her good advice and be the sympathetic ear she can depend on. Careful on this though cause this could make or break your intentions. You could have plus points or simply go down as just being a friend and nothing more.